WELCOME TO CHANGE 3 COACHING

Hi, I'm Pete. I'm a dad, an ed-tech professional in my day job, a mediocre Jiu Jitsu player at night, and I'm also a divorce coach. I came to divorce coaching because I sucked at divorce.  In my divorce, I got my mental and emotional butt kicked, and I made a ton of stupid and avoidable mistakes. It took me years to fully recover, largely because I had the wrong mindset during and after my divorce.

Fast forward several years, and things are a lot better but I'm still mad at myself for how I handled my own divorce experience. I have a lot of regrets. When I learned about divorce coaching and I was immediately drawn to it because it because I know me, and I know I would have benefitted immensely from working with a coach. 

I made a lot of mistakes, but you do not have to. I am motivated by helping my clients to navigate the unfamiliar divorce landscape with confidence and grace. My approach is about helping you define what is important to you in the process and helping you to stay on task to achieve your desired outcome. There is nor easy way to get divorced, but there is a path forward that is consistent with your goals, priorities and values. My job is to help you find that path.

“Look well into thyself; there is a source of strength which will always spring up if thou wilt always look.”

-Marcus Aurelius. 

After my divorce, I spent a lot of time stuck. For years I was just kind of 'getting by'. There we periods or fun and happiness but most of time time I was just bummed out. Call it a hangover from my divorce but whatever it was, I was stuck. And then things started to get better, I wasn't sure and I why but I was happy that things were better and I was changing. It was my partner Jess who finally articulated what those changes were. 

Stop. Inquire. Move.

I stopped engaging in the same negative patterns, I committed self inquiry to understand those patterns, and then I got moving. Three simple changes opened the door for a new approach to my post-divorce life. In my work with clients, we approach divorce from an ADR (Alternative Dispute Resolution) perspective, but where ever possible I try to infuse three principles. 

X?M, it's a simple equation, but it works.